My Young Lady
The funeral was today. Words can't begin to tell you how proud I was of my daughter for the way she handled it. She has surely become a young lady. She was gracious beyond her years to everyone she came in contact with at the service.
I've been to several funerals in my lifetime but never have I ever known a person who was murdered. This man was brutally killed and dumped like a piece of garbage. This is a new situation for me and I can't even begin to wrap my mind around it, so how can my daughter be handling it so well? I think I know the reason.
When she thinks of this situation, she is sad because she will never see her uncle again and she will miss him. When I think about this, I see a child who was taken from their family and at far too young an age. In my own mind, I put myself in the place of his mother and I don't know how she can go on. I can't see it any other way than that, because Iam a mother.
A parent should never outlive their child.
I've been to several funerals in my lifetime but never have I ever known a person who was murdered. This man was brutally killed and dumped like a piece of garbage. This is a new situation for me and I can't even begin to wrap my mind around it, so how can my daughter be handling it so well? I think I know the reason.
When she thinks of this situation, she is sad because she will never see her uncle again and she will miss him. When I think about this, I see a child who was taken from their family and at far too young an age. In my own mind, I put myself in the place of his mother and I don't know how she can go on. I can't see it any other way than that, because Iam a mother.
A parent should never outlive their child.



7 Comments:
Things like this never get easier, no matter what the circumstance.
FUnny how becoming a mother changes you in ways you never dreamed.
You and your daughter are in my prayers.
So many things happen in this world which are beyond comprehension and this is one of them. I am so sorry for your loss.
"A parent should never out live their child"
Just glad you have yours to continue to squeeze and hold on to...such are the finer things in life.
(Many apologies for not getting over here sooner...my bad)
Linda D. in Seattle
Absolutely agree with you. I can't think of anything worse for anyone than losing a child. I hope they catch the person(s) responsible for his death and hope things improve. :)
I'm sorry. I know it's difficult and it never gets easier.
Funerals are hard, sorry and condolences.
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